
Anne Weaver
February 13, 1936 - February 1, 2021Please join the Weaver family for a virtual memorial service on Saturday April 9, 2022 at 2 to 3:30 pm Eastern.
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Anne Vonckx Weaver, 84, of Scituate, MA (most recently of Allerton House, Weymouth) passed away peacefully on February 1, 2021. She is survived by her children, the six M's: Marc Weaver of Boulder, CO; Marcia Weaver (Michael Chapko) of Seattle, WA; Martin Weaver (Jennifer Pasanen) of Brooklyn, NY; Megan Tooker (John) of Bellefonte, PA; Matthew Weaver of Freeport, ME; Meredith Weaver (Paul Piquado) of Geneva, CH; her ten joyful grandchildren (Alana, Makara, Andrew, Julia, Quinn, Sean, Adele, Tate, Danica, and Adam), her sister-in-law Elizabeth (Zanny) Milo of Seattle, WA; and her nieces, Elizabeth Vonckx (and her son, Martin) and Hilary Vonckx (Alex Clark) also of Seattle, WA. She was predeceased by her husband Wayne Weaver, her parents Paul and Alice Vonckx of Hingham, MA, her sister-in-law Norma Vonckx, and niece Jennifer Vonckx of Seattle, WA. Her brother Paul (Skip) Vonckx died on December 26th, 2021.
Anne was born in Arlington, MA. She grew up in Hingham and spent much time in Hingham Harbor sailing and swimming. She loved music and was a gifted piano player. She graduated from Thayer Academy and Smith College, where she was known fondly as Marty because of her appreciation of martinis. She moved to NYC to work in publishing at Scholastic and Book-of-the Month Club. Her adventures took her to Los Angeles, and Denver where she met Wayne. After enjoying the Flatirons, they moved to the South Shore to raise their family.
Anne loved Scituate and all it had to offer: her garden, the Spit, sailing, reading a good book, and plenty of opportunities for enjoying time with her many great friends. She prided herself on not being beholden to the clock and believing that rules could be bent for the benefit of good contributors to the community. She was adept at making new friends, making people comfortable, and sharing her pies. She is known for her thoughtful, if odd, gifts and leaving them unprompted on her friends door steps. She was a longtime member of the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church and was active with their music program and choir.
She traveled the world and shared this joy with her family. She took her grandchildren on sailing trips, sightseeing in Egypt and Uganda, learning about evolution in the Galapagos, enjoying the arts in Paris, experiencing nature in Alaska and Yellowstone. She most recently traveled with family members to Argentina, Italy, Mexico, Maine, U.S. Virgin Islands, NYC, and Quebec City. She enthusiastically shared her passions for adventure, nature, conservation, women's rights, music, and culture. She was always up for getting something planted, jumping in the ocean, and digging for clams. Her can-do and will-do attitude will be missed.
Anne's family is planning a memorial service on April 9, 2022 at 2 pm eastern daylight time. If you feel compelled to donate in her memory, donations may be sent to the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church Music Program or the North and South Rivers Watershed Association.
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"When I remember Anne, I think of a beautifully illustrated book, where every page and chapter is unique and special. One chapter describes an extremely bright and well-read person who could express her opinion about any serious subject, but wasn’t afraid to be silly. She was joyful and fun, but didn..."
Jo ScanzilloFriend"A few years ago, I flew to Seattle, meeting Anne there onher cross-country road trip, so we could travel together back to my home in Sonora California . Along the way, after a Shakespeare evening in Ashland, Oregon, we decided to visit an organic apple farm that boasted over 1000 varieties fr..."
Heidi FerriniFriend"Anne and Wayne Weaver were fixtures at every rowing race, cheering on their daughter, Merry. As her teammate, I got to enjoy the parental hugs of joy when we won and hugs of condolence when we lost. On these cold Spring weekends, they’d take us out for a warm lunch and then drive off … until the nex..."
Susannah KerestFriend"I was late arriving for my first day at Smith as I didn’t know we were supposed to change trains at Springfield. When I walked into Chaplin House, there was a group gathered around the piano and a strawberry-blonde was belting something out on the piano. It was such a cheerful and lively scene, th..."
Audrey ThomasFriend"The death of a dear friend makes us realize just how precious were the years that we were able to enjoy our friendship. There are so many memories of the good times that we had with Anne and Wayne before he died. Our years in Scituate were filled with activities at First Parish Church, walks on the..."
Bette and Dave NelsonFriend