Mary Barker
September 12, 1965 - December 04, 2024Obituary
Mary Melissa Barker known as Missy and Melmo, passed away peacefully on December 4, 2024 in Joplin, Missouri at the age of 59. Born on September 12, 1965 Mary was a beacon of humor and known for her sharp wit and infectious sarcasm that could lighten a room.
Mary, ex-wife to Michael Barker and mom to her two sons Jon and Jared. Her youngest son Jared married Tabitha and blessed Mary with two grandchildren Addison and Moses, who were the light of her life. Known as Melmo to her grandkids, always ready with cake pops, toys, and endless love.
She was a pillar of support, always putting her loved ones needs first.
December of 2022 she was diagnosed with Stage 4 Uveal Melanoma (not curable and terminal). Despite the prognosis, she remained a warrior, courageous and resilient. Her son, Jared, was by her side offering her comfort and love in her final moments when she joined our Lord and Savior in Heaven. Mary chose to dedicate her body to science, in hopes they will find a cure for this horrible disease.
Mary was preceded in death by her parent, Mary and James Mathis and her grandson, Jesse. Her legacy of love, laughter, and unwavering strength will continue to inspire all her knew her.
Mary Melissa Barker will be deeply missed, but her spirit will live on in the hearts of her family and friends. May she rest in eternal peace, embraced by the love of the Lord.
Memories and Condolences
Missy was a close friend of mine in Junior high. She was always kind and carried herself gracefully. I was impressed by her wit and ability to do roll...
Wendy Holsinger KelsoMemoryIm so sorry for your loss she was such a warrior she will be missed by many I know the support group will not be the same without her she kept us all laughing rest is peace my sweet friend love and miss you 🥰 sending prayers 🙏❤️...
Marietta HarmonCondolenceI had the great pleasure of having Melissa to be a caregiver to the elderly she was so loving to all her residents always going the extra mile we beca...
Priscilla KendallMemoryMy heart is broken to hear of Missy's passing. She was one of my best friends in middle and high school. Wow what memories. We were part of a Fine...
Chris ZimmerMemoryMissy was my first friend and companion when I moved to Texas in 1979. She was a bright spot in my life and a fierce defender against those who made f...
Denise TillinghastMemoryMissy, as we knew her (me and my sister Sue Miller) was born when I was thirteen years old. She was our baby. As teenagers we played with her and wat...
Earleen IsbellMemory