Nelly Perez
Celebrating the Life of

Nelly Perez

February 07, 1955 - July 26, 2024

Obituary

Nelly Perez born on February 7th, 1955 and transitioned on July 26th, 2024. Nelly was born in Colombia to her parents Cesar Cortés and Elvia Arroyave. She was the 3rd of 7 siblings. She joins in Spirit her parents, husband Alberto Perez, brother Jairo, and two nephew’s Steve and James. She is survived by her daughters Veronica and Marisol, her son-in-law Juan, her grandchildren Christian, Emily, Eian, and Moon, her bonus son Alvin, her aunt, her siblings, nieces, nephews, comadre, and Godchildren.

Nelly arrived to the United States at the age of 18. NYC and the Bronx was always home. She was an incredibly dedicated and hard worker. She worked as a house keeper for over 40 years. Nelly was always a detailed, loyal, and responsible worker. In addition, she always found alternative ways to support her family. She sold clothing, food, and when her daughters were younger, would create designs on clothing. She was the definition of a humble hustler filled with integrity. Nelly was such a hard worker that she worked while being unable to walk while having metastatic cancer. Even until this past fall, Nelly was still “working” by taking to school her neighbors sons and selling food to neighbors. She did whatever she had to do to earn an honest living, support herself, and have enough to give gifts because that was her love language. If Nelly gave you a gift, that was her way of telling you she loved you.

Nelly was a supportive and proud mother. She instilled in her daughters dedication and hard work. She did the best that she could with what was available to her. Nelly was a one-of-a-kind Íta (grandmother). Her love for her grandchildren was limitless. She said her grandchildren were her motor and reason for living. She was always a present and supportive Íta.

Nelly had an undeniable grit. Throughout her life she was always savvy. She was incredibly strong and resilient. Nelly fought so hard to live. She absolutely loved life. She surpassed multiple medical timelines and made sure she was alive for her granddaughter’s second birthday. She was determined to do whatever she put her mind to with grace and without complaining. Nelly’s commitment to care for her body and live, was a mirror showing her deep love for her family. She fought to live to create unforgettable memories. Her perseverance, resilience, and willpower is an inspiration and gift to us all.

Nelly was a kind and giving Soul. She regularly sent packages to those in need to Colombia. She was generous and always thought about others. Nelly was also outgoing and loved chatting on the phone. She loved shopping and finding deals. Nelly’s love for her siblings was unconditional. She especially enjoyed their Saturday outings and eating at Colombian restaurants. Nelly was so determined that even while having metastatic cancer, she said she became a United States Citizen to be a Citizen just like her grandchildren. Nelly had a deep faith for God. She knew that not only was she supported by God throughout her battle with cancer, God was always present throughout her life especially during life’s hardships. Nelly’s faith and will to live were unbreakable.

Nelly transitioned peacefully surrounded by her family. Her determination and zest for living will be missed. She is now resting in peace and love. While we will all miss her deeply in the physical world, we know that her Spirit lives on and we now all have one badass warrior angel protecting and guiding us all.

Her daughters thank everyone for their love, support, and condolences. They ask that in lieu of flowers, if you would like to send a love contribution towards her services, you can send them via Zelle, Cash App, Apple Pay, or Venmo to:

Veronica: (347) 419-2367 Marisol: (718) 552-7102

Español: Nelly Pérez nació el 7 de Febrero de 1955 y transicionó el 26 de julio de 2024. Nelly nació en Colombia de sus padres Cesar Cortés y Elvia Arroyave. Fue la tercera de 7 hermanos. Se une en espíritu a sus padres, esposo Alberto Pérez, hermano Jairo y dos sobrinos Steve y James. Le sobreviven sus hijas Verónica y Marisol, su yerno Juan, sus nietos Christian, Emily, Eian y Moon, su hijo extra Alvin, su Tía, sus hermanos, sobrinas, sobrinos, comadre y ahijados.

Nelly llegó a los Estados Unidos a la edad de 18 años. Nueva York y el Bronx siempre fueron su hogar. Era una trabajadora increíblemente dedicada y esforzada. Trabajó en limpieza durante más de 40 años. Nelly siempre fue una trabajadora detallista, leal, y responsable. Siempre encontró formas alternativas de mantener a su familia. Vendía ropa, comida, y cuando sus hijas eran más pequeñas, creaba diseños en ropa. Ella era la definición de una trabajadora humilde llena de integridad. Nelly era tan trabajadora que trabajaba mientras no podía caminar debido a que tenía cáncer metastásico. Incluso hasta el otoño pasado, Nelly seguía “trabajando” llevando a la escuela a los hijos de su vecina y vendiendo comida a los vecinos. Hacía lo que tenía que hacer para ganarse la vida honestamente, mantenerse a sí misma y tener lo suficiente para dar regalos porque ese era su lenguaje de amor. Si Nelly te daba un regalo, esa era su manera de decirte que te queria.

Nelly era una madre solidaria y una madre orgullosa. Inculcó en sus hijas la dedicación y el trabajo duro. Hizo lo mejor que pudo con lo que tenía a su disposición. Nelly era una Íta (abuela) única. Su amor por sus nietos era ilimitado. Ella decía que sus nietos eran su motor y razón de vivir. Ella siempre estaba presente y era una Íta que apoyaba.

Nelly tenía un valor indiscutible. A lo largo de su vida ella siempre tuvo mucha habilidad. Era increíblemente fuerte y resistente. Nelly luchó mucho para vivir. Nelly amaba la vida. Superó múltiples cronogramas médicos y se aseguró de estar viva para el segundo cumpleaños de su nieta. Estaba decidida a hacer todo lo que se propusiera con gracia y sin quejarse. El compromiso de Nelly de cuidar su cuerpo y vivir era un espejo que mostraba su profundo amor por su familia. Luchó por vivir para crear recuerdos inolvidables. Su perseverancia, resiliencia, y fuerza de voluntad son una inspiración y un regalo para todos nosotros.

Nelly era un alma amable y generosa. Enviaba paquetes regularmente a los necesitados de Colombia. Era generosa y siempre pensaba en los demás. Nelly también era extrovertida y le encantaba bochinchar por teléfono. Le encantaba ir de compras y encontrar ofertas. El amor de Nelly por sus hermanos era incondicional. Disfrutaba especialmente de sus salidas los sábados con sus hermanas y solían a comer a restaurantes Colombianos. Nelly estaba tan decidida que incluso cuando tenía cáncer metastásico, dijo que se convirtió en ciudadana de los Estados Unidos para ser ciudadana como sus nietos. Nelly tenía una profunda fe en Dios. Ella sabía que no solo contaba con el apoyo de Dios durante su batalla contra el cáncer, sino que Dios siempre estuvo presente a lo largo de su vida, especialmente durante las dificultades de la vida. La fe y la voluntad de vivir de Nelly eran inquebrantables.

Nelly hizo la transición en paz rodeada de su familia. Su determinación y entusiasmo por vivir se extrañará. Ahora ella descansa en paz y amor. Si, todos la extrañaremos profundamente en el mundo físico, sabemos que su Espíritu sigue vivo y ahora todos tenemos un ángel guerrero que nos protege y nos guía.

Sus hijas agradecen a todos por su amor, apoyo y condolencias. Piden que, en lugar de flores, si desea enviar una contribución de amor para sus servicios, puede enviarlas a través de Zelle, Cash App, Apple Pay, or Venmo a:

Veronica: (347) 419-2367 Marisol: (718) 552-7102

Services

Wake/Viewing

Friday August 9, 2024, 4:30 pm - 7:30 pm Eastern Time
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremations 4900 Green Rd. Raleigh, NC 27616
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Memorial Service (In-Person)

Saturday August 10, 2024, 10:00 am - 11:00 am Eastern Time
St. Michael the Archangel Roman Catholic Church 804 High House Rd. Cary, NC 27513
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Interment/Gravesite Service

Saturday August 10, 2024, 11:30 am - 12:30 pm Eastern Time
Oakwood Cemetery and Mausoleum 701 Oakwood Ave. Raleigh, NC 27601
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Memorial Service (Online)

Saturday August 10, 2024, 10:00 am - 11:00 am Eastern Time
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HTTP://www.stmichaelcary.org/funerals/

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Memories and Condolences

  • One of my fondest memories of Nelly will always be when I came over, as I often did when Marisol & I were in high school, and she made the most delici...

    Mayleen Martín-Cabán
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    Marisol Perez
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  • I have been blessed to have known Nelly a wonderful and amazing woman, mother grandmother sister and a great friend. We had a wonderful friendship.All...

    Maria Damas
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    Marisol Perez
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  • Mi querida Doña Nelly, gracias por todo su cariño, atención. Gracias por compartir su cariño con nosotras y reírse de nuestras ideas/ peleas de quien...

    Jeannette Carrera
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    Marisol Perez
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